Over the period he apologised for trying to scam me and claimed he wanted to be a reformed person and I tried to help him with advice on how to turn his life around. He then started begging for money. It started out at $5,000, then it dropped to $1,000, the $100, and now it's whatever I can manage. He has changed his name five times over the course of the six months although he has never pretended to be anyone different...just the same person wiuth different names. This started up again this morning when I received this, headed "Do not be a bad person":
I responded with...How can you claim you know God and not help people you want to stop bad things. I ask you for feeding money for my family so i stop scamming people but you refuse to help and you preach repent. I am writing to you with this email so you can know is me okay. Listen, my family need help now can you help us again or you just turn us down once more? My Family needs help and we can do with a thousand dollars which they will thank you for, even if you do not have up to that amount just help okay, I do not know how to ask you but this way. Please send me reply on my good email [email protected].
Thanks so much.
He came back...Why is it my responsibility to feed your family? How do I know you even HAVE a family since you are a self-confessed scammer and self evident liar, having changed your name five times now?
Which made me retort...I have a family, okay. Wife a boy and A girl. The boy is my first son and the girl the sister. Just help me to them okay, just help us. I am not saying is your right to feed my family, do not get me wrong but I must say this and truth we need any help you can provide us please. I just feel whatever is making me do this is because you can assist us pleas. Thanks
He then reiterated and did some more begging...Nothing is making you do this. You are choosing to do this. You could just as easily direct your energies in a more positive direction instead of expecting people to come to your rescue while you sit on your backside doing nothing but nevertheless wanting to see your life improve massively overnight.
MeMy name is Oladipupo P Adebayo, I am married with one wife and 2 kids, 3kids but I lost one girl making 2.I live in Africa Nigeria, Sorry for all this but I just need your help and something tells me you can help no matter how small. Right now am down to earth with you.
Okay please can you help us with 100usd please which I and my family will appreciate you for life. Mind you I work my life out for my family and love ones. The only regret I have is how I was introduce to the scam work by company of friends but thanks to you it is leaving me. Just trying to hustle out to be able to assist my self I pray I meet someone who will connect me to the top in a genuine way
LadThat's your problem right there. You want to get to the top right away. Life doesn't work like that. You have to start at the bottom and work towards what you want. If you go through life expecting other people to hand you it on a silver platter, you'll die with nothing.
MeBrother I have been at the down all day long when I mean the top I don't mean I want to rise to start to lavish my self I mean I want to provide for my self help my self and people when I can to be a helping hand
I pray grace find me
LadTo quote the old saying, "God helps those who help themselves"
I see a pattern here. You have nothing, you say. And yet you have no real desire to do anything to change that. You want someone to come along and hand it to you so that you can have what you see as your due without any input from yourself.
MeYou feel so bad about me
LadI've got nothing else to go on! Your past antics are not exactly indicative of a decent human being and I don't care what your circumstances are, resorting to criminal behaviour is not the way to improve your life and it certainly isn't the way you get people who don't know you to trust you!
MeI hear u
LadGood. Now you know what you need to do. It's called "turning over a new leaf" and you have to demonstrate it to others. There's no good in just saying you're a better person, you have to act the part and show people you are sincere. Only then will things begin to improve. But they will. The universe reflects back to you what you put into it. Positive behaviour = positive results. Negative behaviour = negative results. It's simple really, but it's hard to do, at least at the beginning when it's not what you're used to doing. My own saying is "act until it's a fact"
My question is:Okay
I hear you brother
Hmmmmm
Thank you
Is this guy concievably kosher and needing help or is he just a particularly tenacious lad?